Tuesday, 27 October 2015
Monday, 26 October 2015
Saturday, 24 October 2015
Hugging !
"Hugging is only a gesture of love, of warmth, of caring, the very feel of the warmth flowing from the other person melts many illnesses in you, melts the ice-like cold ego. It makes you again a child. The psychologists are well aware of the fact now that unless a child is hugged, kissed, he misses some nourishment."
"Just as the body needs food, soul needs love. You can give to the child all physical needs,all the physical comforts,but if hugging is missing the child will not grow in a wholesome being. He will remain somewhere deep down sad, uncared for, neglected, ignored."
" Hugging is such an incredibly effective therapeutic tool. It is only a gesture, it can be a magical tool, it can be a miracle. It can transform the whole situation instantly."
" if you go deep into a man , you will always find the innocent child. Hugging gives you an immediate contact with the child. If you hug somebody with warmth , love, if it is meaningful, if your heart is flowing through it, immediately you come in contact with the child- with the innocent child."
OSHO The wild geese and the water.
Don't cling, don't escape.......only remain a witness
If you are feeling good, sooner or later you will feel bad, and there is no point where you stay in between. You move immediately from this to that. Just like the pendulum of an old clock, you move from left to right, from right to left, and the pendulum goes on moving.
There is a secret law: when the pendulum is going to the left, it appears to be going to the left, but it is gathering momentum to go right. When it is going to the left, it is gathering energy, momentum, to go right; when it is going right, it is gathering momentum to go left.
So what appears is not the whole. unhWhen you are becoming happy, you are gathering momentum to be UNHappy. So whenever I see you laughing, the moment is not far away when you will be weeping.
When happiness is there you cling; when pain is there you escape. This is the natural attitude. If you want to change this natural law and transcend it, when pain is there don't try to escape. Remain with it. You will disturb the whole natural mechanism. You have a headache: remain with it. Close your eyes, meditate on the headache; remain with it. Don't do anything. Just be a witness; don't try to escape.
When happiness is there and you are feeling especially blissful in any particular moment, don't cling to it. Close your eyes and remain a witness to it all. Clinging or escaping are natural for the dust-covered mind. If you remain a witness, sooner or later you will fall in between because the natural law is to move to the polarity, to the polar opposite. If you remain a witness, you are in between.
Osho-The Vigyana Bhairava Tantra vol one
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