Friday, 2 January 2015

Solution for Rape ???

Rape is one of the problems which is not so easy to decide and judge; there are so many complexities. But first, just for argument’s sake, let us accept that it is certain that he committed the rape. The question arises: why did he have to go to such lengths to fulfill such a simple desire? Sex is such a simple phenomenon. There is no lack of men or women, there is no necessity for anybody to rape.
But the way the society has been against sex, they have made it a serious problem. It should be simple playfulness – and that’s exactly what it is. Two people are playing tennis, there is no problem. Nobody ever hears that somebody raped… there is no question of raping in tennis. You can play; there is no need to rape. When two people are playing tennis they are using their bodies, their minds. What are they doing when they are making love? – it is just there is not a net in between. And all the contraceptives are nothing but the net! The contraceptives make it really a game, with the net.
The net was missing. God did not supply it to Adam and Eve. Perhaps out of anger he simply kept the net to himself; otherwise, in throwing those two poor people out of the garden of Eden he should at least have given them all the provisions for life.
The society goes on making you very serious about sex. It goes on making you repress your energies. There is a limit to repression; after that limit, the energy takes over. Whenever a man commits rape, he is not in his senses, for the simple reason that the rape cannot help him to solve his problem. The rape cannot give him the joy that his whole physiology is asking for. Rape cannot give him the warmth, the love, the receptivity that he needs. It is simply not the answer to his need.
But you have left no other ways. You have forced the man into such a condition that he simply explodes like a volcano. Seeing a woman in a lonely spot he forgets the consequences. He forgets hell, God, The Bible, church, court, constitution; he forgets everything. He is not in his real self, he is not himself; he becomes almost like an animal.
And this is not a way of making love: the woman is screaming, she is shouting and trying to escape. You can call it a fight, you cannot call it love. And he forces himself upon the woman by sheer physical violence. He interferes with the independence of another human being and he gets nothing out of it – he gets castration, or fifty years of imprisonment. This is the orgasm that he gets. And the society is responsible for the whole thing: the court and the judge and the law – they all represent the society.
This is a very cunning way of destroying individuals. On one hand you force them to be criminals, on the other hand you are ready to punish them. But your punishment does not seem to be compassionate; your punishment seems to be a kind of revenge.
If the man has raped, and that is a crime, then the judge who orders his castration – in what category are you going to put that judge? He is not in any way different from a rapist. The society is taking revenge. The society is not being fair, it has not looked into the whole phenomenon.
Osho, 
From Misery to Enlightenment, Ch 26, q#1


Meditation Is Not Escapism !

Desire means your whole mind. Desire means not to be here now. Desire means moving somewhere in the future which is not yet. Desire means a thousand and one ways of escaping from the present. Desire is equivalent to mind. In Buddha's terminology, desire is mind.
Desire is time too. When I say desire is time too, I don't mean the clock time, I mean the psychological time. How do you create future in your mind ? by desiring.
You want to do something tomorrow, you have created the tomorrow, otherwise the tomorrow is nowhere yet, it has not come. But you want to do something tomorrow, and because you want to do something tomorrow you have created a psychological tomorrow.
People are creating years ahead, lives ahead. They are even thinking about what to do after life, after death. They are even preparing for that !
These people are thought to be religious, they are not religious at all. Desire takes you away from the now-here, and now-here is the only reality.
Hence Buddha says, He never gives in to desire,He never moves into the future, he lives in the present. To live in the future is to live a false life, a pseudo life.
The man who lives in the future, lives a counterfeit life. He does not really live, he only pretends to live. He hopes to live, he desires to live, but he never lives. And the tomorrow never comes, it is always today.
Whatsoever comes is always now and here, and he does not know how to live here-now. The way to escape is called "desire."
Tanha - that is Buddha's word for what is an escape from the present, from the real into the unreal.
The man who desires is an Escapist !
Meditators are thought to be escapists. That is utter nonsense. Only the meditator is not an escapist - everybody else is.
Meditation means relaxing in the moment, in the present. Meditation is the only thing in the world which is not an escapist thing.
People who condemn meditation always condemn it with the argument that it is escape, escaping from life. They are simply talking nonsense, they don't understand what they are saying.
Meditation is not escaping from life ! it is escaping into life. Mind is escaping from life, desire is escaping from life.
~ Osho
Excerpt from - The Dhammapada - The Way of the Buddha, Vol. 1, Talk #7




When Buddha Enlightened !

" When Buddha became enlightened, he placed his hands together in salutation and bowed his head until it touched the ground. The story goes on to say that the gods came from heaven to pay their respects to Buddha because he had found the ultimate truth, but upon seeing him with his head touching the ground, they were surprised. They asked Buddha to whom he was bowing.They said that they had come from heaven to offer greetings to him because he was enlightened and that they did not know that there could be something to which even Buddha had to offer salutations, as enlightenment is the ultimate attainment. Buddha then opened his eyes and said, "In whatsoever has happened to me, I am not alone, the world has also participated. So I bowed down to the earth in thanksgiving to the whole world ".

Osho:
Hidden Mysteries,Ch 6 ]



Wednesday, 31 December 2014

NEW YEAR'S RESOLUTION

Question: OSHO, IF ONE WERE TO MAKE ONLY ONE NEW YEAR'S RESOLUTION, WHAT WOULD YOU SUGGEST?
"This and only this can be the New Year's resolution: I resolve never to make any resolutions because all resolutions are restrictions for the future. All resolutions are imprisonments. You decide today for tomorrow? You have destroyed tomorrow.
Allow the tomorrow to have its own being. Let it COME in its own way! Let it bring its own gifts.
Resolution means you will allow only this and you will not allow that. Resolution means you would like the sun to rise in the west and not in the east. If it rises in the east, you will not open your windows; you will keep your windows open to the west.
What is resolution? Resolution is struggle. Resolution is ego. Resolution is saying, "I cannot live spontaneously." And if you cannot live spontaneously, you don't live at all — you only pretend.
So let only one resolution be there: I will never make any resolutions. Drop all resolutions! Let life be a natural spontaneity.
The only golden rule is that there are no golden rules."
OSHO, Walk Without Feet, Fly Without Wings and Think Without Mind, Chapter #5 - Fri, 5 January 1978, am in Buddha Hall



Facing An Insult !!!

Buddha was passing through a village and the people came and they insulted him. And they used all the insulting words that they could use – all the bad words that they knew.
Buddha stood there, listened silently, very attentively, and then said, 'Thank you for coming to me, but I am in a hurry. 
I have to reach the next village, people will be waiting for me there. I cannot devote more time to you today, but tomorrow coming back I will have more time. You can gather again, and tomorrow if something is left which you wanted to say and have not been able to say, you can say it to me. But today, excuse me.'
Those people could not believe their ears, their eyes: this man has remained utterly unaffected, undistracted. One of them asked, 'Have you not heard us? We have been abusing you like anything, and you have not even answered!'
Buddha said, 'If you wanted an answer then you have come too late. You should have come ten years ago, then I would have answered you. But for these ten years I have stopped being manipulated by others. I am no longer a slave, I am my own master. I act according to myself, not according to anybody else. I act according to my inner need. You cannot force me to do anything. It's perfectly good:you wanted to abuse me, you abused me! Feel fulfilled. You have done your work perfectly well. But as far as I am concerned, I don't take your insults, and unless I take them, they are meaningless.'
When somebody insults you, you have to become a receiver, you have to accept what he says; only then can you react. But if you don't accept, if you simply remain detached, if you keep the distance, if you remain cool, what can he do?
Buddha said, 'Somebody can throw a burning torch into the river. It will remain alight till it reaches the river. The moment it falls into the river, all fire is gone – the river cools it.
I have become a river. You throw abuses at me. They are fire when you throw them, but the moment they reach me, in my coolness, their fire is lost. They no longer hurt. You throw thorns – falling in my silence they become flowers. I act out of my own intrinsic nature.'
~ Osho
Excerpt from - The Dhammapada: The Way of the Buddha, Vol 2, Talk #10


Be happy NOW Here !

No Old Year !No New Year !

Everyday is a  New Begining   that never gets Old !

Be happy in being Now  here ! Because no where you will get it !




Sunday, 28 December 2014

E N L I G H T E N M E N T

In a single moment, in one stroke, you can become enlightened. It is not a gradual process, because enlightenment is not something that you have to invent. It is something that you have to discover. It is already there. It is not something that you have to manufacture. If you have to manufacture it, of course, it will take time; but it is already there. Close your eyes and see it there. Be silent and have a taste of it. Your very nature is what I call enlightenment. Enlightenment is not something alien, outside you. It is not somewhere else in time and space. It is you, your very core. [...]

I became enlightened without any master, so there cannot be any problem for you. If it can happen to me, it can happen to you. The master is not a must. It has become a must because you are so lethargic, because you are so unwilling to move towards ecstasy, because you are so attached to the ways of sorrow and anguish."
 OSHO,
Ecstasy - The Forgotten Language, Chapter #10 - 20 December 1976 am in Buddha Hall
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