Be very scientific in watching.

WHEN I say meditate over it, I don’t mean think it over, I don’t mean concentrate on it, I don’t mean contemplate it.

When I say meditate over it, I mean watch, be a witness. Whatsoever the problem – anger, sexuality, jealousy, greed, ego –

whatsoever the problem is, the medicine is the same.

If you suffer from jealousy, just watch how it arises in you, how it grabs you, how it surrounds you, clouds you, how it tries to manipulate you, how it drags you into paths where you never wanted to go in the first place,

How finally it creates great frustration in you, how it destroys your energy, dissipates your energy and leaves you very negatively depressed, frustrated.

Just watch the whole thing.

And remember not to condemn, because if you condemn you have started thinking.

I am not saying condemn it.

Just see the facticity of it, without condemnation, without appreciation, without any judgement for or against.

Just watch, aloof, distant, as if you have nothing to do with it.

Be very scientific in watching.

OshO 

All that you can think of doing is to wait with love, trust – in silence – and the guest will come. You cannot manage the guest to come; you can only be just an available host: no responsibility, just a pure awaiting....